At my baby shower January 16th, 2 weeks before delivery
Tuesday, July 13, 2010
THE BUG IS BORN!!!!!!!!
At my baby shower January 16th, 2 weeks before delivery
Monday, July 12, 2010
Marriage is what brings us together today...
Since I had a year to plan, I had a year to stress over every single detail. Thankfully, my Mom is the most amazing woman in the entire world. She spend countless hours sitting at the computer searching for different things to decorate with, or different ideas. Without her, I honestly don't know what I would have done. She really should be a professional wedding planner. She made every single part of the day absolutely perfect for me (and Aaron).
For the most part the day went off without a hitch. I do have a couple favorite parts though. So, here are my top 5 favorite things from my wedding day.
5. Aaron's Grooms Cake - Picking out our cakes was the one thing that Aaron had a very specific "vision" about. He knew exactly what he wanted and it turned out amazing.
4. My dress was also one of my favorite things! My mom and I are pretty much professional shoppers. We have done a lot of it in my 24 years with her. We went to Weddings by Debbie in Houston, and as soon as we started walking around I saw MY dress. It was the first one we picked up and the first one I put on. It could have been the only one I put on as far as I was concerned but we knew I couldn't just try on one dress. Where was the fun in that? So, while we waited for my Dad to come to the store to see the dress and make sure he approved we played around and tried on some more. When I came out of the dressing room in my dress and my Dad teared up I knew for sure without a doubt that it was the dress I was going to be married in.
3. Our wedding party. They were INCREDIBLE! I'm not sure if there was anything that they wouldn't have done for us that weekend. From driving 15 hours to get there, to getting up at 7:00 a.m. to get their hair done, to dancing into the reception to "Walk It Out", to making a baseball bat arch for us to leave through. They were fabulous and we were so thankful and lucky to have them in our lives.
2. My Maid of Honor. Yes, she falls into the category with the wedding party but she is the most amazing girl I know. She is my cousin, Michelle. We were not lucky enough to live close to each other as she grew up in California and I grew up in Texas but she has always been such a special part of my life. I am so happy that her (and the rest of her family... her brother was an usher) were able to come to the wedding, and that she was able to be such a big part of it.
1. Falling and getting a HUGE grass stain up the front of my dress 2 hours before I was supposed to walk down the aisle. No, this was not my favorite part of the day at the time. But, looking back this was one of the unique quirks that made it OUR wedding. I am a klutz and always have been. Aaron has always made fun of me for it, so it was typical for me. The groomsmen made me feel much better by telling me we were just going with the baseball theme and it looked like I had made a great catch playing center field or something. So, at the time I wasn't thrilled, but now I can look back and laugh .
There were many other things that stand out to me as favorite things. Like my center pieces. My mom and I worked for hours and hours to come up with something that would be both beautiful and different from normal center pieces. The candles made the room light up just perfect and the coffee made it smell amazing! Another favorite was my best friend Ember "Catching the bouquet". She made quite an attempt to catch it as gracefully as possible, however, it ended badly with her flat on her hiney on the dance floor. Thank goodness she was a trooper though and doesn't mind me reliving it numerous times on our wedding video.
Finally, one of my other favorite things was just the whole experience! From the planning to the day of, its was wonderful. My mom and I sat down right after Aaron and I got engaged and talked about the fact that this was going to be a once in a lifetime experience so instead of getting upset or worked up or stressed out, we were just going to take our time and enjoy it. I loved every last second I got to spend with my parents planning the wedding and am grateful beyond words for everything they did to make it a perfect day for us. They went above and beyond anything I ever though possible! So... thanks Mom and Dad!
Here are just a few more pictures from our special day. Thanks to everyone that was there... 3 years later! :)
Sunday, July 11, 2010
Our Engagement!
December 11, 2006 I finished my finals and headed back to Sugar Land for the Christmas break. Aaron was planning on meeting me there the next day and we were going to fly to Florida for a friends wedding that weekend. This was our first trip where we were actually going to fly together and I wasn't making a trip alone to visit Aaron somewhere, we were both super excited. On December 12th, my mom and dad took me to the airport in Houston to pick up Aaron who was flying in from Midland. When he got off the plane he was acting very strange. As usual my first thought was, "Oh no! Aaron's breaking up with me... and I really wanted to go to Florida!" (I have never been). I tried to hug him and he gave me a from the side friend hug. I tried to kiss him and he would give me a kiss your mom on the cheek kiss. I knew something was up but in my mind he had just realized he was crazy and had flown all the way to Houston to break up with me.
We finally got back to my parents house after what seemed like forever in the car. The whole drive, Aaron wouldn't hold my hand, wouldn't sit close to me... nothing. We hung out for a little bit and then headed upstairs to get ready for bed. Aaron was in his room "spending time with Caddie" and I was in my room trying to figure out what I was going to do since I obviously was getting broken up with. The next thing I knew Caddie wad running into my room with a maroon bandanna around her neck with Aaron close behind her. I sat down on the ground and was petting Caddie when she laid down and rolled onto her back. I then saw the most beautiful thing in the world... a gorgeous engagement ring hanging from the bandanna around Caddie's neck. When I looked up at Aaron he was down on his knee and asked me to marry him. He said some amazing things... I wish I hadn't been so excited and had actually listened to them... oops! I wish I had a better way with my words in that moment because my response to him was... "Shut Up!" Eventually I calmed down and was able to say YES YES YES! I ran downstairs to tell my parents. My Dad was in bed already and his response was... "That's nice." My Mom's response when I showed her my ring was... "Is that fake?" All the way around it was a wonderful night and I was thankful above all that I was not getting broken up with and was going to Florida still (only joking, I was thankful beyond any words that I was going to marry my best friend and the most amazing man in the world).
So, we went to Florida and had a fabulous time! Aaron bought me my first bridal magazines while we were at the airport, and we spent the whole trip calling friends to tell them the good news.The whole time I couldn't help but think that in one more year that was going to be us getting married with all our friends and family around us. Since baseball players have such a short amount of time between the end of the season and spring training starting again, pretty much all baseball couples will have their wedding anniversary during November and December. It made it easy to pick a date though, which was nice!I was so incredibly happy, I couldn't believe that things just kept getting better and better!
Saturday, July 10, 2010
The Booger
Friday, July 9, 2010
The Dating Years
-Dallas, Texas
-Little Rock, Arkansas
-Rancho Cucamonga, Californi
-Midland, Texas
-Salt Lake City, Utah
While he was "living" in those places he also managed to travel to:
-San Antonio, Texas
-Corpus Christi, Texas
-Tulsa, Oklahoma
-Wichita, Kansas
-Springfield, Missouri,
-Albuquerque, New Mexico
-Colorado Springs, Colorado
-Las Vegas, Nevada
-Tacoma, Washington
-COUNTLESS cities in California
Needless to say, most days I had to look at a schedule to try to remember where he was and what time zone he was in. Although I'm making it sound horrible, it was the most fun we have ever had. We met such wonderful people (2 of which were actually in our wedding) and were able to experience so many exciting things and interesting places.
When Aaron wasnt playing baseball he made a point to come visit me (or have me go visit him) as much as possible. We wore out the road between College Station and Dallas. He came for a couple sorority parties, and luckily (for me) he never missed a birthday. I'm sure everyone I went to school with was just sure that I was making up this "boyfriend" of mine who was never around.
I'm sure that kind of lifestyle is not for everyone, but it worked for us! I'm not pretending that it was all rainbows and sunshine. We had some tough times, one time I even broke up with him! But, apparently I wasnt very good at it since I had never done it before, and he didnt know we were broken up until I told him I wanted to get back together. Thank goodness for him I guess. I'm sure if he knew he would have cried his pretty eyes out.
Since I am 4 1/2 years younger than Aaron, I was much younger than most of his friends that he played ball with also. The first season we dated I do not believe I had a name to most of the guys. They just referred to me as "the kid". (ex: "Hey, AP, when is the kid coming to visit", "Hey, do you and the kid want to go eat with us") Luckily I had grown accustomed to being made fun of from growing up with 3 brothers so it never slowed me down. A lot of the time I ended up bringing most of the jokes on myself. Like the time I drove to San Antonio to watch a series, and it just so happened to be the first time I had ever driven on the highway. I went right to Aarons hotel room where about 6 other guys were sitting playing video games and proudly announced ... "I DROVE ON THE HIGHWAY ALL BY MYSELF!" This was not Aaron's proudest moment.
So this went on from February of 2005 to December 12, 2006, which just so happened to be the most exciting day of my life up to that point,but we will save that story for another time!
Aaron and I on a "fancy" dinner in Salt Lake City (Summer 07)
Before Kappa Delta Semi Formal (12/06)